Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Photo-Heart Connection, April 2012

For me April was a month that I didn't take as many pictures as I usually (or like to) do.  However, my daughter & I attended a large horse show (CDI/CPEDI) the last weekend of April that was very moving and inspirational.  Part of this show was the CPEDI for para equestrians hoping to get the scores to try out for the 2012 olympic games - like I said - a big/important show.  We wanted to see one equestrian in particular - Courtney King-Dye.  I won't go into her full story here, but essentially a former olympic team member who fell from her horse in 2010, suffered a traumatic brain injury (was not wearing a helmet) and competed for the first time since the accident at this show - hoping to move forward as a para rider on the 2012 olymic team.  The photo was taken from far away, heavily cropped, but she stands proud & at this moment seems to be in her own thoughts (I wonder what she was thinking). 

Courtney King-Dye, far right - looking forward - para equestrian rider
We don't personally know her, but got a chance to meet and hear her encouraging words, along with her trainer/mentor/friend - former olympian Lendon Gray, speak to junior riders.  You know meeting someone like her, cheerful, helpful, etc - even after her injury puts things in our lives into perspective.  Here's the link to her own website:  CKD Dressage which includes a lot of information including her personal blog.  Along with Lendon Gray, they have created a website encouraging junior rider participation including the use of helmets (some helmet rules were changed in the equestrian (English) world because of her accident) which you can find here.  Thank goodness my daughter has never ever given anyone grief over wearing her helmet - meeting Courtney & watching some of the para riders just reinforced helmet use for her - not sure if you will ever see her in a top hat - just not worth it - only takes one fall. 

Here's my big gripe for this post:  I will never understand riders who chose to go without a helmet - I see people (especially Western riders) who ride out without a helmet - it only takes one fall & why risk it?  Are you not that important to the people in your life to protect yourself?  I really have a hard time seeing young kids - some riding trail rides or parades without a helmet - riding on concrete.. why?  I've heard all the reasons - it is hot, doesn't look good, doesn't stay within the tradition of the sport, etc.... even bull riders are now protecting themselves ... I just don't get it & think it is one of the most poor choices a rider (or parent of those young riders) can make when in the saddle.  During this weekend there were several shows going on at the same as the CPEDI - also a 3 start CDI - a stepping stone for able-bodied riders.  Interestingly during one event (dressage derby FEI prix st goerges 2nd ride) where the riders all switch horses so you end up riding each other's horses, the 2 women wore hard helmets - the 2 men wore top hats.  Even more amazing, one male rider was warming up a horse (not his own) and we saw that horse rear at least 3 times prior to going in the test arena - yet he still wore that top hat.  I don't get it..  Gripe over.

I had never watched a para equestrian event before & at the awards ceremony the announcer talked about each rider & how they obtained their injury or what their own challenge was - it was extremely emotional for everyone in the arena.  I'm really glad we drove there to see them.  My daughter videoed the entire awards ceremony for the para riders which you can find here on youtube (keep in mind it was a hand-held video camera taken by a 12 year old).  Here are a few other inspirational para equestrians - congratulations to them all for even attempting what they do on those horses... no matter if they are walking or have the ability to perform canter half-passes (hey not even my daughter is up to that level yet).


Jonathon Wentz, rode Grade 1B FS on Sunday (2 horses)
Barbara Adside, rode Grade 2 FS on Sunday
We were only able to attend the show on Sunday, but these riders (and others) also rode tests on Friday and Saturday.  Jonathon Wentz has cerebral palsy and his website can be found here.  Barbara Adside was born with spina bifida and here's a wonderful article about her here (she's also been an actress and stuntwoman). 

Linking up with Kat Sloma's Photo Heart Connection for April.  Visit her website here to see other photo-heart connections.

Sorry for the lengthy post (and the many links) - I had a lot to say this time!!

16 comments:

  1. This was very interesting, and something I'm not familiar with at all. Thanks for sharing it. I can understand how it connects with your heart.

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    1. Thanks for following the thumbnail... I knew there were para riders, but had never watched them either - or heard their story - it was very interesting.

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  2. What a touching post to read about these para riders. There are so many inspiring and courageous people out there. We should remember this when we feel like complaining...

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    1. Definitely put some things into perspective for both me & my daughter, especially in her own equestrian life.

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  3. thank you for shining lite on this wonderful event. We always learn so much from others.

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    1. Appreciate you following the thumbnail & taking the time to read my (very) long post.

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  4. wow...reading this made your photos a heart connection for me too. i think it's wonderful that you shared all of this with us...thank you.

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    1. This event really brought emotions out for me & I have no personal ties to those riders or that event. It was something to watch in-person. Wish I would have been able to see more of their rides.

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  5. I love all that came out in your Photo-Heart Connection this month! It's amazing how one image or event can be a catalyst. I feel your passion for this topic, and your respect of these riders you watched, through your words. Thank you so much for sharing with us!

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    1. Thanks Kat! Always appreciate your kind words & your time!!

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  6. Great story, respect for the para riders speaks from your post and the photo's, thanks for sharing.

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    1. Appreciate you taking a few minutes to read my post & leave a comment. I was surprised at the emotions watching those riders brought out in myself. This was a big show for them too - a step towards olympic team qualification.

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  7. Great story. I agree that whatever the sport or activity -- horseback riding, bike riding, motorcycles -- one should dress fro safety and expect the worst. Then the worst does not happen.

    Inspirational photos.

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    1. Thanks Bo!! I have to admit when bicycle riding we do get slack about helmets (we didn't grow up wearing them), but when on a horse - no question about if you should be wearing a helmet -- those horses are wearing metal/iron - shoes & one kick easily goes through bone. Thank you for your comments, hope you'll check out my blog again.

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  8. I enjoyed seeing this day through your photos! A very touching post! It must have been an awesome day!!

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    1. Yes Cathy - it was a fun day - we were able to watch the para riders & some high level able-bodied riders as well; not to mention some beautiful horses.

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